The
Atlanta Journal-Constitution found
private detectives who said Valentine's Day is a big deal for cheating spouses:
Feb.
14, these investigators joke, is their Super Bowl of Surveillance.
"Eighty
percent of cheating spouses will try to spend part of the day with the other
person," said Jimmie Mesis, editor of the trade journal PI Magazine.
Ruth
Houston -- founder of InfidelityAdvice.com
and author of "Is He Cheating On You?" -- says she normally
discourages the use of private investigators, but makes an exception for
Valentine's Day.
"I've
seen too many people spend hundreds of thousands of dollars, only to come up
empty except for a receipt," Ruth said. "But if someone's cheating,
they are going to make contact on Valentine's Day, either to give a gift or
receive one."
[Jeanene] Weiner
is the founder of Busted
Confidential Investigations, an all-woman outfit in Marietta boasting the grrl-power motto "Where
Intuition and Information Meet."
Her
Valentine's Day will begin early, because she knows from experience that many
of the cheaters will schedule a breakfast or lunch-hour tryst.
"This
way, they get to go home after work and spend a romantic evening with the
person they're married to, and no one suspects a thing," she said.
Last
year, The
Wall Street Journal found:
The Institute for Divorce Financial Analysts,
a Southfield, Mich., trade group of professionals trained
to review divorce settlements, says filings typically spike in mid-February.
"It's so consistent I can't deny a pattern," says Natalie Nelson, a
divorce financial analyst in Boulder,
Colo.
Indeed,
divorce lawyers say they frequently turn up evidence of Valentine's Day
duplicity when they review financial documents. Credit-card receipts from
restaurants or purchases at fancy jewelry stores are the most common giveaways,
says Heidi Harris,
a partner at New York
law firm Sheresky Aronson & Mayefsky.
New York attorney Raoul Felder concurs: "The kinds of
purchases documented for Feb. 14 give an indication of how serious the
relationship is," he says.
School Bus Drivers on Cell Phones
The American School Bus Council
says bus drivers should
stop talking on cell phones while they're behind the wheel.
Think
this doesn't happen? Think again.
ABC-11
in Raleigh, N.C., found "example after example" of bus drivers yakking on the
phone while driving.
Convicted Drunks Driving School Buses
The
Columbus (Ohio) Dispatch wanted to know how many school bus drivers in the Columbus area had DUI
convictions or drug-related license suspensions. The answer: 167 drivers in 106 school districts.
Why does this
happen? One reason is because the state, while knowing the complete history of
every driver, offered school districts only a summary of the last three years'
driving records.
The
story points out:
The near-universal reaction of school officials when
informed that they had hired drivers with checkered pasts: "We didn't
know."
State laws, practice and policies make it virtually impossible for
school officials to review complete driving histories maintained by the state.
The shortcomings have placed more than 150 schoolbus drivers on
the road who might otherwise have been barred from delivering children between
their homes and classrooms.
Cities Losing Parking-Meter
and Ticket Money in Big Snow
Lots of snow makes parking meters (and spaces) inaccessible. Cities lose
money.
Al's Morning Multimedia
Take a look at The Boston
Globe's story about a Marine who took his own life after Veterans Affairs told him to wait for a bed in the government hospital's ward for post-traumatic
stress disorder sufferers. He was 26th on a waiting list for 12 beds. The
piece includes a chat with the reporter and a moving audio slideshow.
The story says:
The apparent failure of the Department of Veterans Affairs to
offer him timely and necessary care has electrified the debate on the blogs and Web sites that connect an increasingly networked and angry veterans community.
It has triggered an internal investigation by the VA into how a serviceman with
such obvious symptoms faced a wait for hospital care.
And it is being cited by veterans' advocates and
their allies in Congress as a searing symbol of a system that they say is
vastly unprepared and under=funded to handle the onslaught of 1.5 million
veterans of the wars in Iraq and Afghanistan who are returning home, an
estimated one in five of them with post-traumatic stress disorder, or PTSD. One
in three Iraq
war veterans is seeking mental health services, according to a report by an
Army panel of experts last year.
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